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Love the One You’re With

kdk February 16, 2010
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Read Time:2 Minute, 29 Second

Abridged Audiobook: 4 CDs (5 hours)

Read by Kathleen McInerney




Anyone who’s been married for more than a week or two will tell you that marriage isn’t easy. It takes hard work and commitment—and, still, no matter how much you love your spouse, there will always be obstacles and challenges along the way.



For Ellen, in Emily Giffin’s Love the One You’re With, Leo is her first big obstacle.



Just one passing glance—that’s all it takes to send Ellen’s whole world spinning wildly out of control. It’s a rainy day in New York City—and, as she’s walking across the street, she catches a glimpse of her ex-boyfriend, Leo, for the first time in eight years.



Before that glance, Ellen’s life had been perfect. She and Andy had just gotten married, and they were settling into their Happily Ever After. But when she sees Leo again—and, later, when she hears his voice on the phone—she’s flooded with old memories and old feelings that never really died.



At first, it’s innocent enough—just a glance…a phone call. But then Leo offers Ellen her dream job—and, at the same time, things with Andy start to falter. And Ellen begins to wonder if she’s made the right choice.



Though it may come dressed in fluffy chick lit clothing, Love the One You’re With is often an uncomfortable book to read (or, in my case, listen to)—because it’s so brutally honest. It’s hard to set aside years and years of baggage—old loves, hurts, and insecurities—and make a life-long commitment to someone. And Giffin handles the topic thoughtfully and truthfully—in a way that contemporary romances rarely do. The answers are never easy—and the outcome is never really certain.



Unlike many contemporary heroines, Ellen is far from perfect—and her faults are deeper (and more serious) than neglecting to tell her husband about the expensive boots that she bought (even though he told her not to). She does some pretty stupid things—things that will make you cringe. But, at the same time, you might understand. You might just be able to relate (even though you won’t really want to).



The story has been abridged for the audio version, but it doesn’t feel as though anything’s missing. In fact, the characters and their situations are developed better than they are in some full-length books.



Love the One You’re With isn’t as fluffy as the usual work of chick lit—so, if you’re looking for a light and brainless way to pass the time on your way to and from work, you might want to look elsewhere. But this romantic drama is still both entertaining and thoughtful. It’s a challenging but sincere novel that’s sure to remind you once again why you love the one you’re with.

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Kristin Dreyer Kramer has been writing in some form or another (usually when she was supposed to be doing something else) since the ripe old age of ten—when she, her cousin, and their two Cabbage Patch Dolls formed the Poo Authors’ Club. After a short career in advertising, Kristin got sick of always saying nice things about stuff that didn’t deserve it—so now she spends her days criticizing things, and she’s much happier for it. Since creating NightsAndWeekends.com in February of 2002, Kristin has spent her life surrounded by piles and piles of books and movies—so many that her office has become a kind of entertainment obstacle course. As if her writing and editing responsibilities for N&W.com weren’t enough to keep her out of trouble, Kristin also hosts a number of weekly radio shows: Reel Discovery, Shelf Discovery, and On the Marquee. She’s also a proud member of the Broadcast Film Critics Association (CriticsChoice.com), the Central Ohio Film Critics Association (COFCA.org), the Online Film Critics Society (OFCS.org), and the Women Film Critics Circle (WFCC.Wordpress.com). Kristin lives in Columbus, Ohio, with her husband, Paul, and their daughter, Anna. She welcomes questions, comments, and fan mail at kdk@nightsandweekends.com.
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kdk

Kristin Dreyer Kramer has been writing in some form or another (usually when she was supposed to be doing something else) since the ripe old age of ten—when she, her cousin, and their two Cabbage Patch Dolls formed the Poo Authors’ Club. After a short career in advertising, Kristin got sick of always saying nice things about stuff that didn’t deserve it—so now she spends her days criticizing things, and she’s much happier for it.

Since creating NightsAndWeekends.com in February of 2002, Kristin has spent her life surrounded by piles and piles of books and movies—so many that her office has become a kind of entertainment obstacle course.

As if her writing and editing responsibilities for N&W.com weren’t enough to keep her out of trouble, Kristin also hosts a number of weekly radio shows: Reel Discovery, Shelf Discovery, and On the Marquee. She’s also a proud member of the Broadcast Film Critics Association (CriticsChoice.com), the Central Ohio Film Critics Association (COFCA.org), the Online Film Critics Society (OFCS.org), and the Women Film Critics Circle (WFCC.Wordpress.com).

Kristin lives in Columbus, Ohio, with her husband, Paul, and their daughter, Anna. She welcomes questions, comments, and fan mail at kdk@nightsandweekends.com.

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